Category Archives: happiness

Do what you Love & Love what you Do !!!

Yesterday my wife was watching her favourite television program. All drama, gossip, jealousy & saas-bahu sajish.

I asked her why do you watch such a crap thing. Is there anything good in such television programs?. She said I like watching these programs. I come to know about latest trends in the fashion, jewellery, cosmetics. Even though you don’t like it I enjoy watching every bit of it.

My question to her was why all women like talking about this gossip, jealousy & sajish. Why do they  just think about shopping, jewellery, cosmetics only ??

She stopped television, looked at me as if she was ready for war !!!

Then she said I agree that women just talk of all rubbish things, think only about shopping but can you please tell me what valuable things men do discuss??

She started counting … Cricket, Football, Politics, women, sex and blablabla…

Now tell me which one of these is valuable & important??. Playing cricket, football or any game is good for health. But Watching sports channel laying on sofa, having chips, drinking beer is anyway healthy?? Talking to friends about games, movies & dirty jokes is really beneficial for family?? And most important politics. How do you think that you and all your friends are going to make difference in Brexit decisions or going to manage annual budget of the nation?

I was speechless & there was pin drop silence in the room.

Men always think how silly girls are. Girls do and discuss useless things. But when  I started looking at myself from my wife’s perspective I realised how wrong I was. What men do is equally useless.

In reality there is nothing called as good or bad, right or wrong. We all do the things which makes us happy. For others it may not be important or useful. It is just the way we look at it. It’s all about our perception.

You don’t always need special reason for doing anything in life.                                           Just do it because you want to, Because it’s a fun, Because it makes you happy.

What we Want and what we Need

This is the story of a middle age man ranging from 25-45 years of age. We are those generations who are born with very few things around us but grow with smart phones, computer & internet. Our childhood was very simple & easy. But as we were growing things started changing. In last 10-15 years smart phones, hi-tech gadgets, computers, internet have acquired our whole life.

My father used to work for 6 days a week. He has to travel for 2 hours every day. And he was able to earn just enough to feed family of 6.This was the story of all neighbourhoods. We didn’t had many toys in the childhood.  Parties, movies & tours were in the dreams only. Couple of cloths in whole year.  At the occasion of festival or birthday only. Birthday celebration was also rear thing. But still our childhood was happy, enjoyable & memorable.

When we were in college we couldn’t have thought of anything else than A good job, home, car, savings, gold and a lovely family. Today most of us have all those things in life but still we are running for something. Our life is not happy & satisfied. We are running for salary hike, promotions, more promising & challenging job, bigger home, foreign tours, better education for children and lot many things. We have most of the things but still we want more and more. Now days brands are playing important role in our life. Rolex, Apple, Sony, Audi, Mercedes, Volvo, Samsung are driving us. It’s not important to just have anything. It has to be branded. We buy many things which we don’t need or we hardly use. Show off, publicity, brands, social image are becoming more & more important.

And some of us give lots of excuses for this. Many people say I don’t want to run in this race but others are running so I have to run. Someone is worried because his engineering classmate got less marks but still he is earning more salary than him. Someone is unhappy because his junior gets more salary than him. Someone is worried because his brother-in-law has purchased a 4 bedroom flat & another friend has moved to a bungalow. Someone has to plan Europe tour because their kid’s friends had visited Europe already. Someone says, I want my son’s birthday party to be most memorable. I don’t care how much money I spend for this. For my daughter’s wedding I want to have everything special, it doesn’t matter how much it will cost me.

But is this what we really need or this is what we are forced to do. Are we doing this because we want to win the race, or we don’t want to left behind. Do we really need costly perfumes, branded cloths, hi-tech gadgets, expensive cars, lavish homes, expensive foreign tours, grand luxurious wedding.

A big question what we want & what we need?

Now it’s time to think about what we really need??

!!!!!! Sound sleep, healthy & peaceful life, Work & personal life balance, happy & satisfied family, Cool relaxing, tension free life. !!!!!!