Yesterday my wife was watching her favourite television program. All drama, gossip, jealousy & saas-bahu sajish.
I asked her why do you watch such a crap thing. Is there anything good in such television programs?. She said I like watching these programs. I come to know about latest trends in the fashion, jewellery, cosmetics. Even though you don’t like it I enjoy watching every bit of it.
My question to her was why all women like talking about this gossip, jealousy & sajish. Why do they just think about shopping, jewellery, cosmetics only ??
She stopped television, looked at me as if she was ready for war !!!
Then she said I agree that women just talk of all rubbish things, think only about shopping but can you please tell me what valuable things men do discuss??
She started counting … Cricket, Football, Politics, women, sex and blablabla…
Now tell me which one of these is valuable & important??. Playing cricket, football or any game is good for health. But Watching sports channel laying on sofa, having chips, drinking beer is anyway healthy?? Talking to friends about games, movies & dirty jokes is really beneficial for family?? And most important politics. How do you think that you and all your friends are going to make difference in Brexit decisions or going to manage annual budget of the nation?
I was speechless & there was pin drop silence in the room.
Men always think how silly girls are. Girls do and discuss useless things. But when I started looking at myself from my wife’s perspective I realised how wrong I was. What men do is equally useless.
In reality there is nothing called as good or bad, right or wrong. We all do the things which makes us happy. For others it may not be important or useful. It is just the way we look at it. It’s all about our perception.
You don’t always need special reason for doing anything in life. Just do it because you want to, Because it’s a fun, Because it makes you happy.